10 mistakes that affect divorce settlements and custody battles

Divorce settlements and custody battles can stretch out for several months or even years, depending on the nature of the case. Once the proceedings have been initiated, your personal and professional life will also come under the direct scrutiny of the law. Willingly or unknowingly, you might say or do something that affects the case proceedings and the final verdict. So, here are ten pitfalls to avoid when the case is still in court.

Refusing to cooperate
Divorce hearings are difficult for both parties. But refusing to cooperate with your spouse to reach a mutual agreement only makes matters worse.

Not hiring an experienced attorney
Divorce proceedings can get complicated as time passes. So, you must have an experienced attorney on your side who has won a few cases at the least.

Losing your calm
Certain arguments can spiral out of control. But any inappropriate behavior in court can swing the case in favor of the aggrieved party.

Badmouthing your spouse
The children are the ones deeply affected by divorce proceedings and custody battles. It will only make things worse if you paint a negative picture about your spouse to swing the custody battle in your favor.

Withholding information
It is morally wrong and illegal to withhold information privy to both spouses caught up in a divorce settlement.

Not having realistic expectations
Spouses are entitled to pay child support and provide every type of financial assistance deemed necessary by the judge. So, be prepared for any such verdicts.

Using social media to vent out
Posting anything on social media that raises questions about your spouse’s competency will automatically swing the case against you if proven in court.

Refusing to communicate
Divorce settlements and custody battles can take years to arrive at a decision. During this time, it is necessary to keep an open channel of communication.

Ghosting your spouse and kids
Any action or reaction that ends up with you ghosting your kids or shying away from parental responsibilities can be deemed as negligence by the judge.

Ignoring the court’s directive
Do as the judge says, period. There are no ifs and buts about the decision, as nothing good will come from disobeying a court order.